Best Man

Congratulations, you’ve been picked as the Best Man. And, now begins the journey to the altar as your best mate’s right hand man. But, don’t worry – we’ve planned out everything you need to know as a Best Man, so you don’t have to worry about a thing.

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The Big Question

Your best mate asks you to be his Best Man. Ride it out with a man hug & a bit of back slapping.

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Freak Out About Speech

Panic! Pressure! Fluctuate between anxiety & confidence right until it’s all over.

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Suit Fittings

Learn far too much about suit cuts, tie knots & pocket squares.

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Epic Stag Do

Round up the troops & start organising the ultimate last night of freedom.

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Activities

Get creative with your plans. We’ve come a long way from having a few pints at the local.

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Themes

Keep it classy or dress up the stag in the most outrageous costume imaginable? Big decisions.

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Wedding Venue Recce

Visit ceremony & reception venues with the bride & groom. Try to be as excited as them.

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Rehearsal

Run through all the logistical details. Con-cen-trate.

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Night Before Nerves

This is unofficial boys’ night. Eat, drink & be merry – sensibly. Nothing worse than a hungover groom on the big day.

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On the Morning

You’re a human alarm clock & you’re on breakfast duty. Get everyone moving - bacon sandwiches & strong coffee.

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Get Him to the Church

Organise classy cars from the house to the church. Give plenty of time. It’s customary for the bride to be late – not the groom.

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Ring Panic

Frantically pat down your jacket every couple of minutes just in case. Yup, still there.

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Deliver the Rings

You pass them over at the correct moment. Duty done. Sweet relief.

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Leaving the Church

The newlyweds will lead the way out of the church & the Best Man escorts the Maid of Honour behind them.

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Church to Reception

Take the lead with getting people to the reception. If people are driving, provide maps, or you may need to book cars or minibuses in advance.

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Photographs

Whilst guests drink and chat, help round up people for each photograph upon request.

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The Speech

Finally, the time has come. Deep breaths. The first time everyone laughs, you'll relax and enjoy yourself. Nailed it.

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Gentleman Smoke Cigars

The groom may need a few minutes of quiet time. Cigars provide a gentlemanly excuse.

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Dance With the Family

Let flower girls dance on your shoes. Dance with the oldies. Everyone will adore you.

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Drunk Watch

You don’t need to be the fun police, but make sure your good man doesn’t drink his weight in vodka. He’ll regret it.

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Wedding Car

Decorate the honeymoon car with the Maid of Honour. Keep it classy – step away from the Silly String.

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Stay on Duty

However much of a good time you’re having, make sure the groom is having a better one. That’s the measure of the ultimate Best Man.

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Last Updated - 17/06/2015

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